MEN DON'T CRY!

MEN

Before you allow yourself to love a man who’s forgotten a long before what it is to be loved, you should consider running away.

To love a man, who has been in love before, known betrayal…. like he never meant anything to the woman who used to mean the world to him………it’s not going to be easy, I tell you.
So save yourself the heartbreak and run away, becoz he doesn’t need you.

He doesn’t seek happiness anymore. He doesn’t want anyone to fix his sharp, broken edges. He doesn’t believe in settling down. So if you think, he’s selfish, probably you’re right. He doesn’t need your shoulder to cry on. He’s used to getting himself up from the floor when the weight of the past knocks him down. Because guess what?

“Men don’t cry”

Isn’t it?

When you finally gather the courage to tell him that you have fallen in love with him, he is gonna run. He’s gonna escape, bcoz he’s afraid of you too, like the girl before you, will eventually leave.

Hold his hand, pull him close when he walks away. Tell him that he’s worth fighting for. He won’t believe you, for sure. Bcoz he’s heard these words before, and saw them losing their meaning. Allow him to be vulnerable in front of you. Try to decode why he never wants to take it beyond friendship. Why he never wants anything more than ‘no-strings-attached.’ Bcoz he’s afraid of the strings as he knows how it feels when the strings get ripped out from the heart.

Don’t talk about everlasting love. Don’t promise forever bcoz he has already started to believe in the fact that “promises are meant to be broken”. Instead, be a friend, not just a girlfriend.

He’ll doubt your sincerity, second guess you. Bcz the things you do to him, someone before you has already done to him….only to take it all away.

It’s okay if you choose to pass him by. You don’t have to burden yourself with the baggage that he holds with him. It’s okay bcoz he’ll eventually forget you. Don’t worry. He can survive without you.

But,

If you wish to stay, that is your choice. And it will be worth it. When he finally learns to trust you, he will love you with the ferocity that will leave you questioning the definition of love itself. He will stand by you through thick and thin. He’ll be forever grateful to you, bcoz you are his second chance. Bcoz you taught him how to live, not just to survive. And that is perhaps, the best form of love you can ever come across in a lifetime.
So question yourself before committing to such love that makes him wonder that maybe…. just maybe….love is worth giving a second chance…….
Or else, another door is always open for you.
Just run away.